Hi Mavis,
You seem to know a lot about spikey hair! hehe I think you might live a secret life as a punk rocker??
Yes, the technique for getting that "controlled messy" look is to place a small about of product in the palm and distribute across the larger surface of your hand. Once you have an even distribution, you start applying it evenly to the hair with perhaps a little more product focussed on the top and fringe.
You have to be careful not to go crazy with the stuff though or you will end up a greaser!
This product has a very unique gummy, chewy feel. This seems to be what makes it perform differently to other products.
Give it a try or buy it for that special man in your life

Have you got any good tips on hair products up your sleeve?
Stevo